How To Meet A Partner
I get asked all the time - “how do I meet a partner”? Everyone wants to know what the secret is. What the exact method or path is that will get them what they want. I wish I could say that there was a secret answer that will unlock everything, but that is not the case. The good news is that there are more ways to meet someone than ever before. Dating apps, run clubs, hobbies, dating events, social media, matchmakers, mutual friends. Back in the day, the dating scene was maybe more straightforward but it was also much less creative. Now, you have so many different ways and opportunities to meet a partner. And while that does have its downside, ultimately it heavily leans more positive. I have friends and clients who have met their partner in all different ways. From mutual friends to a random meet cute to a dating app or through a social event. The options are truly endless.
While the digital age has created some difficulties in the world of dating, it has also allowed so many people to meet who would not have otherwise. I hear stories all the time of two people connecting over social media who live in opposite ends of the world but end up dating. Meanwhile, two people are matching on an app and it turns out they grew up down the street from each other. But maybe they would have never met if it weren’t for the apps. These opportunities were not possible twenty years ago.
I was at a bachelorette in Mexico recently and during one of our night’s out some of my girlfriends met a group of cute guys. They had a fun night out with them and exchanged numbers. While nothing came of it, my friend and I were reflecting on what this meant in terms of dating. It was one of those interactions that reminded her how many people are out there in the world. There are so many options and at any moment, you could connect with someone. And even though that interaction was just a fun night out and some flirty conversations, sometimes that’s all you need. That one positive interaction to remind you of what’s out there.
If you want to meet a partner, then your mindset is everything. Be open to putting yourself out there in new ways. And the key is to not go into it expecting to sign up for an app and right away match with your perfect person. Or to show up to your favorite hobby and meet your person at the first outing. Like everything, these things take time. Meeting your person who you want to spend the rest of your life with is going to take time. Put yourself out there in different ways that align and feel good for you. And be patient. It will happen but you need to get out there and make it happen with your actions and your mindset.
Interested in working with me as a coach? Here are a few ways to work with me!
The Dating Blueprint - a 3-month 1:1 coaching program designed specifically for the motivated woman who is ready to work from the inside out to embrace being single, enjoy the experience of dating, and make time to date with intention so they can find a long-term partner with the qualities and values they are looking for.
Attachment Theory Decoded - an in depth look at attachment theory with an assessment that unlocks your unique attachment style and a 1:1 coaching session for a full debrief on your results and how they affect your dating life.
The 6 Pillars to Creating a Dating Life You Love and Attracting Your Ideal Partner - a FREE guide that takes you through steps needed to face your fears and tackle your limiting beliefs head on so you can embrace being single and look at each dating experience as a fun and expansive opportunity.
Free Flow Coaching - If my program options aren’t for you but you are interested in working together, then let’s chat about a more free flow 1:1 coaching option. I offer three or six month packages.
